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Taking Care of Someone You Love with Terminal Illness

A terminal illness affecting a family member or someone you love changes life in general, not only when it comes to providing care and support but also the fear of losing that person. Most people don’t know how to react and how to deal with the situation. It is not healthy to just sit at home with the curtains drawn dwelling on the situation, you need to be your loved one’s strength and support most especially in this toughest time on his life. Expect that your loved one will surely want to spend his life at its fullest and build precious memories, so be there to show support to his simple request and wishes like going to the sea to get some fresh air or swim, watching his favorite movies, viewing the sunset, or meeting with old friends.

While it is true that a terminal illness may have painful and burdensome signs and symptoms, you can still help to relieve these manifestations by doing a thorough research on your end when it comes to managing such illness. Utilize the Internet and just type in the name of the illness you are looking for such as peritoneal mesothelioma, congenital heart defect, or cancer. Let your loved one know that you are there to provide not only his medical needs but also listen to his concerns. Allow time for your loved one to pour his emotions and thoughts, and don’t force acceptance because there is no right or wrong when it comes to death. Many patients experience denial because the reality is too overwhelming and too frightening, and this is a coping mechanism. A a terminally ill person faces a lot of fears that may include pain, financial consequences, becoming a burden to the family, loss of autonomy and bodily functions, and death.

You can emotionally and spiritually support your loved one by talking about his fears, and seeking professional help from a psychologist, psychiatrist, or spiritual counselor. It is important to talk about life and death if your loved one opens the topic, and affirm that his life mattered and he will be remembered. If possible, you can consider recording your conversation as a way to honor your loved one. There will come a point that if your loved one feels the time is coming, he will open up the topic of his wishes before he dies, so don;t forget to ask what he wants because there are people who want to die with their loved ones nearby, while there are those who prefer dying alone or privately.

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